Feeling Down ? Your not on your own & this may be the reason !

Seasonal Affective Disorder, otherwise known as SAD, is a form of depression that comes and goes in a pattern with seasonal change. Over the course of the autumn/winter period, sufferers feel a change of mood, decreased energy or motivation, may sleep longer or lose focus.

Over a third of those aged 16 years+ suspect they may have SAD, suffering from low moods in autumn and winter and Londoners are significantly likelier than those anywhere else in the UK to have been diagnosed with SAD (over 11% of people in London).

Dr Sarah Perkins, a Clinical Psychologist specialising in anxiety and mood disorders at Schoen Clinic Chelsea, explains: “The symptoms of SAD usually peak in the months of January and February. The main cause noted is the lack of sunlight which could prevent a part of the brain, the hypothalamus,  from functioning properly which consequently affects a number of issues, such as:

  • The production of melatonin – a hormone that makes you feel sleepy.  Sufferers of SAD may produce higher levels.
  • The Production of serotonin – the hormone that affects your mood, appetite, and sleep; reduced serotonin is linked to feelings of depression.
  • The body’s internal clock (circadian rhythm) – your body uses sunlight to time various functions such as when you wake up.  Lower light levels can disrupt your body clock leading to SAD symptoms.

For some, SAD symptoms can come on during summer months and feel lighter during the wintertime, however that’s quite rare”.

The most common symptoms of SAD include:

  • Persistent low mood
  • Excessive sleep or sleeping longer than normal
  • Decreased ability to focus or concentrate
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in activities formerly enjoyed
  • Irritability and anxiety
  • Feelings of guilt and hopelessness
  • Fatigue, or low energy level
  • Decreased sex drive
  • Increased appetite, especially for sugary foods and carbohydrates
  • Physical issues, such as headaches

Dr Perkins continues: “For many people, SAD can cause significant disruption to their work, home-life and relationships. Regular exercise and getting natural light can alleviate or lessen the symptoms. An early morning walk is highly recommended.”

Ways to help if suffering with SAD;

  • Take in as much natural light as possible, go for a walk or try to wrap up and have your drinks out in the open.
  • Exercise can help boost your mood naturally. If you do not have the energy to overcome your SAD inertia. Try and co-ordinate exercise or a class workout with a friend and give them permission to be forceful in their encouragement insisting you accompany them to do exercise.
  • Dawn simulators or alarm clocks that mimic the sunrise by producing light that gradually increases in intensity, were as effective as light therapy for people with mild SAD, according to a study published in July 2015 in the Journal of Affective Disorders.
  • Consider whether it would be helpful to talk to a mental health professional or carefully select people in your life to talk to when you are feeling low.
  • Taking a course of antidepressants from autumn until spring is an option to support the relief of symptoms such as depression.
  • Working to make sure you have social events planned so that any depression doesn’t leave you totally isolated and alone with your thoughts.
  • Spend time with a pet. Studies have shown that pets can improve mood, reduce stress and anxiety and even decrease high blood pressure.
  • Avoid isolating yourself. Keep in contact with others as this will be vital for your wellbeing. Even if you are reading a book, it is beneficial to do this in the same room as someone else

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Planning is the key to meeting healthy eating goals

Words by Dr Bunmi Aboaba, Food Addiction Coach

Puppies aren’t just for Christmas, and resolutions aren’t just for New Year. If you feel you need to make changes in your life, you don’t have to wait another eleven months to do something about it. But you do need to give yourself the best chance of success, and that means planning.

The top resolutions taken on each January (more exercise, weight loss, better diet) put food at the heart of most goals, and an important part of changing eating habits is identifying triggers. Do certain situations, feelings, moods or times of day prompt you to overeat? If so, it is likely you are being triggered. Triggers are habitual and operate unconsciously and will have you reaching for food, even when you’re not hungry, to satisfy an unmet need.

Ask yourself:

What are your trigger foods? 
What foods can you never resist? 

They’re likely to be highly refined carbohydrates as these are particularly addictive and satisfying due to having high concentrations of sugar, salt, and fat. These types of foods release feel-good hormones, which keep you wanting more!

Take some time to outline the specific foods you find hard to resist so that you can become more aware of your personal food triggers.

Additionally, try to understand what emotions and environments trigger you to self-sabotage.

Do you crave certain foods when stressed, sad, or happy?
Do you find it hard to resist foods when in certain situations or with particular people?

By acknowledging your triggers, you are taking the first step in gaining control of your eating habits.

After a challenging two years of lockdowns, illness, and uncertainty, I expect these results to be the same, if not more heightened, as we seek to improve our overall health and sense of wellbeing.

So, bearing in mind nearly 25% of us fail to keep our resolutions, what actions can we take to make them stick?

Set Your Intention

To progress and reach your goals, you must start with understanding where you’re at now. You can then set your intention of where you want to be.

Create a clear picture in your mind of where you are going and what you want to achieve. Intentions and beliefs are powerful – they will make all the difference to your journey.

It’s all to do with bringing your goals, hopes, and aspirations into conscious thought and connecting them to your whywhich will empower, motivate, and inspire you to keep going.

You must understand that you are not hopeless or the victim of uncontrollable urges and circumstances. Instead, remember that you hold the power to change direction and transform yourself into whatever you wish to be. This, however, requires time, honesty, and commitment. 

When setting your intentions, answer the following:

What are your goals? 
Where do you want to be at the end of your weight loss journey? 
What will you look like?
What will you feel like? 
What will you be able to achieve? 

Set SMART Goals

As a food addiction coach, I recommend that all my clients set themselves SMART goals. This acronym stands for specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time-specific. An example of how this could be applied to a goal such as exercising more could look like this:

Specific – Setting a particular goal such as achieving couch to 5k.
Measurable – Logging progress each week.
Attainable – Understanding personal limitations which could prevent this goal from being reached.
Realistic – Altering the challenge accordingly and following through on a new basis rather than giving up.
Time-specific – Setting a date that this will be achieved, such as six months.

Those who do not set themselves SMART goals are the ones who are unlikely to achieve their preferred outcome. They are more likely to become disheartened, frustrated, and impatient. As a result, they lose sight of their goal and the intention behind it.

Practice Mindful Eating

How you eat and where you eat is also crucial to your fulfilment. Consider the atmosphere in which you consume your meals. To maintain healthy eating habits, you must actively consider your mind-body connection

How can you encourage a more mindful way of eating ?  

Remove as many distractions as possible – Turn off the TV and remove all smart/screen devices from your mealtimes. 
Eat in a positive space – Try to ensure it’s a clutter-free dining space, lay the table, use your favourite crockery, and perhaps light a candle. This will encourage you to be mindful and enjoy the moment.
Practice gratitude – Mindfully express thanks before and during your meal. This could be saying a blessing over your food or expressing thanks to yourself or the person who has prepared the meal. 
Share your meals – Where possible, do not eat alone. Instead, share food with loved ones. Try and choose people with a positive attitude who will encourage and support you with your eating goals.

These practices will strengthen positive messages to your body to nurture your mind-body connection and you will begin to find fulfilment and satisfaction from the act of being present and aware at mealtimes. 

Plan Your Meals

Meal planning involves thinking ahead and planning the foods you will consume. This helps ensure that you have healthy food choices to hand and are less likely to return to old habits and pick up unhealthy foods.

It is vital to focus on bringing joy and excitement into your meals rather than think about what you are missing out on. Changing what you eat requires dedication and forethought, so try and plan a week in advance.

Consider commitments, responsibilities, and who you will be eating with each day. Pay particular attention to those days when you might be tired or stressed and plan an easy option to avoid falling into detrimental stress eating habits.

Select foods that will nourish both mind and body. Think about colour, texture, flavour, and variety. This will help ensure that you do not get bored with your new eating routine.

Every meal you plan and eat should bring you health, emotional wellbeing, energy and pleasure.

Recognising your success and achievements is vital for your ongoing recovery and long-term health. Remember, achieving your new year goals is not a test of willpower. Instead, breaking habits is a journey. There will be times where you feel inclined to give up or where you make a detrimental choice. However, be kind to yourself, acknowledge how far you have come, and celebrate the path you are on!

To discover an alternative method to weight loss, healthy eating, and long-term food serenity, try my Craving Freedomcourse. A gentle approach to beating food cravings and developing a healthy relationship with food.

MERRY CHRISTMAS & A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR – SEE YOU ALL IN JANUARY

The Hottest Toys for Christmas 2024

Data tracking experts Circana, estimate the UK toy market to be worth £3.4 billion in the 12 months to September 2024. Last Christmas £900 million was spent on toys, accounting for 26% of annual toy sales.

Global leader in kids, young adults, and parents’ market intelligence, The Insights Family, has observed an increase in parental spending on gifts for children throughout 2024 and expects this trend to continue, consistent with the steady growth seen since 2021.

Research has found that from 2021 to 2024, monthly spending on gifts for children rose among parents of 1–16-year-olds by 35%, from £61 per month in 2021 to £82 per month in 2024.

With this in mind the Toy Retailers Association’s DreamToys top toys for Christmas 2024.

The DreamToys Christmas list is the most authoritative prediction of what are expected to be the hottest new toys on the high street this festive season. It is the only list selected by an independent panel of toy retailers and toy experts from small independents to large national chains.

The DreamToys list includes exciting interactive toys, new versions of family favourites and something for all the family, from preschool up to adults, with a diversity that reflects the many tastes and trends that define the UK’s toy industry today.

PLEASE NOTE: The list is presented alphabetically, as a full top 20, and is not ranked in any way.

Product Name

Supplier

Beyblade X Xtreme Battle Set

Hasbro

Bluey 3-in-1 Transforming Plane Set

Moose Toys

Despicable Me 4 The Ultimate Fart Blaster

Moose Toys

Disney Stitch

LEGO Company

FurReal Peanut the Playful Monkey

Just Play Products

Hatchimals Alive Mystery Hatch Pufficorn Egg

Spin Master

Hex Bots Wall Crawler Gecko

Spin Master

Icons Tiny Plants

LEGO Company

Hot Wheels Ultra Shark Car Wash playset

Mattel UK

Kinetic Sand SquishMotion

Spin Master

Little Live Pets My Walking Penguin – Waddles

Moose Toys

Littlest Pet Shop – Pet Shop Playset

Bandai UK

Miniverse Make It Mini Potions Class

MGA

Paw Patrol Rubble’s Bark Yard Deluxe Bulldozer

Spin Master

Pets Alive: Mama Duck & Baby Surprise

Zuru

RealFX Disney Stitch Puppetronic

Wow Stuff

Speed Champions Mclaren F1 Race Car

LEGO Company

Sticki Rolls Sticki Book Pack

Character Options

Unicorn Academy Interactive Rainbow Light-up Wildstar

Spin Master

UNO Show ‘Em No Mercy

Mattel UK

The DreamToys panel picked the toys based on the value they offer – to the pockets of gift-givers and their users’ play time – as well as the patterns of play they inspire and the emerging trends they represent.

This year’s top 20 range in price offering something for all ages and budgets.

 

The Unmissable Christmas Gift Guide for Ladies

Finding the perfect Christmas gift for the women in your life can be a delightful yet daunting task. Whether you’re shopping for your mum, wife, girlfriend, sister, or grandmother, the key is to choose something that resonates with her unique personality and interests. This guide will help you navigate through a treasure trove of thoughtful gifts, from luxurious beauty products to cozy home essentials. With options that cater to every style and budget, you’re sure to find something that will light up her holiday season and show just how much you care.

When it comes to winter accessories, LOEWE sure knows the vital ingredients for crafting the perfect scarf. Footed by a double-face alpaca and wool blend, this rendition is jacquard-woven with a multitone marble pattern for a hit of all-important flair, while chunky fringed edges and a leather logo patch deliver a touch of textural intrigue

Treat someone special to this chocolate and fizz gift box. We’ve filled it with scrumptious treats, including Chocolate Dipped Honeycomb, Chocolate Patisserie and Collection Milk, Dark and Blood Orange Chocolate. Pour a glass of delicious Prosecco to enjoy alongside your sweet treats

Jacquemus knits a healthy dose of alpaca wool into this beanie for a thick and satisfying feel. The ribbed design seeks to keep you warm, even as temperatures plummet, while an iconic logo tag will add a signature style note to your look

These Silver-Tone Joaquina Drop Earrings. Break with convention and infuse your style with the bold, edgy elements of Vivienne Westwood’s Joaquina drop earrings – a juxtaposition of punk and femininity.

Channelling the brand’s rebellious spirit and individuality, each earring is handmade from silver-tone brass, centred around a crystal set cross top and orb globe, accented by three pear-shaped crystal drops. Wear these statement-making earrings on their own, incorporate them into a stack, or pair with matching pieces from the brand for a coordinated look

Grab the ergonomic handle and take this reusable tumbler to every appointment on your busy schedule.

Made from 90% recycled stainless steel for sustainable sipping, the Quencher H2.0 Flowstate tumbler from Stanley is the final word in reusable bottles. The vacuum insulation means liquids will stay hot for seven hours and cold for eleven hours, or two days when iced. The Flowstate lid offers three positions in the rotating cover: a holder for the included reusable straw, a drink opening and a full-cover top for spill-free movement, so even when the specially slimmed-down base is slotted into your car’s drink holder, you won’t lose a drop

Launched by Kim Kardashian in 2019, SKIMS is inspired by the desire to create size-inclusive shape wear people could rely on. Crafted with the softest fleece fabric, this pullover hoodie is updated with a slightly longer length and more open neckline. Perfect for lounging you can pair it with the matching joggers or shorts

Lab grown or man made diamonds have taken the jewellery industry by storm. They can be up to 30% cheaper than the natural variety. Perfect if you are on a tighter budget or wish to maximise the size of your diamond for the same cost. Lab grown diamonds are considered an eco-friendly alternative to natural diamonds due to there being a lot of scrutiny over mining practises in the past.

They’re beautiful alternatives to natural diamonds and offer the same amount of sparkle so if they look the exact same? And Jeweller Ernest Jones have an amazing range this Christmas.

Spoil the lady you love and let her shine with this Silas Metallic Dress from none other than FatFace. Designed to glimmer every time it catches the light, this show-stopping dress has a relaxed fit, frilly detailing and a button chest placket for an extra-special finishing touch. Wear it with heels or boots and you have a ready-made party outfit.