With an 82% year-on-year increase in Pinterest searches for “men’s wedding guest outfit”* the demand for clear, stylish guidance and inspiration on wedding attire is at an all-time high. So, for those who have a string of invites to RSVP to, what should they consider?
To help those looking for guidance ahead of attending a wedding, Jamie Hadfield, formalwear buyer at Suit Direct has provided tips on how to navigate the complexities of wedding dress codes, ensuring they can look their best for the big day – as well as avoiding any fashion or dress code faux pás.
Black Tie dress code
A black-tie dress code leaves little room for interpretation. A tuxedo, preferably in black or midnight blue, is essential. While there are limited opportunities for personal flair, consider your dress shirt, lapel pin, and shoe choice carefully. Only black patent leather or loafers are acceptable at black tie events.
Formal dress code
While many black-tie rules apply, a tuxedo is not mandatory but often optional. I’d recommend going for a dark grey, midnight blue, or black suit, and choosing either a bow tie or a straight necktie. Your shirt must have a collar; avoid t-shirts, polo shirts, and banded collars. Depending on the wedding theme, you may express some personal style through your shirt’s colour, texture, or pattern – so if you prefer to stand out, try experimenting with pattern and colour.
Cocktail dress code
Cocktail is a semi-formal dress code and offers more flexibility. A suit or suit separates (a more formal jacket with trousers in a different colour or material in colours like navy work well, and a necktie is optional. Accessorise to reflect your style without going overboard, keeping in mind it’s still a wedding.
Casual dress code
Casual dress codes can be tricky. Consider the invitation details: the venue, timing, and likely weather. For summer weddings, chinos are ideal, while lightweight wool trousers work for winter. Printed shirts are appropriate but avoid t-shirts and ties.
Choosing the right colour suit for youMany people may go for the safer darker colours but especially for a warmer wedding choosing lighter colours may be a better option. Finding a suit colour that complements your skin tone can enhance your overall appearance and boost your confidence.
For fair skin, darker shades like navy, charcoal, and black suit cool undertones, while earthy tones like camel and olive green are ideal for warm undertones.
Medium skin tones with cool undertones look great in grey, navy, and burgundy, whereas warm undertones benefit from rich colours like caramel and forest green. Dark skin tones shine in bold colours like royal blue and emerald for cool undertones, and mustard yellow and burnt orange for warm undertones. Those with neutral undertones can wear most colours, focusing on seasonal appropriateness. Ultimately, choose colours that make you feel confident, and ensure your shirt and tie provide a complementary contrast to complete your look.
Dos and Don’ts of Wedding Guest Attire
DO’s:
· Incorporate Colour Thoughtfully: Check for a colour scheme and choose complementary, but not matching, hues.
· Ensure Proper Fit: Re-wear older items only after confirming they still fit well. Schedule any necessary alterations in advance.
· Pack Essentials: Always bring a sewing kit and lint roller for emergencies.
DON’Ts:
· Avoid Last-Minute Packing: Hang your outfit as soon as possible and use a fabric steamer to eliminate creases.
· Skip Floral Boutonnieres: Instead, opt for a stylish lapel pin and leave floral accessories to the wedding party.
· Minimize Bulky Items: Use a card holder or money clip and bring only essential keys. Find alternative storage for your phone if possible.
· Reserve Special Looks for the Groom: Unless specified, avoid wearing feature looks and white dinner jackets, which are reserved for the groom and his attendants.
